Mereas MUSSAR LIFE-Coaching (Training for the Soul)

Mereas of Grace Mussar LIFE-Coaching (Training the Soul)

My son, don’t forget My teaching (Torah), keep My commands in your heart;
for they will add to you many days, years of life and peace. ~ Proverbs 3


There is only One LIFE Coach and His Name is Yeshua The Anointed – The Christ. We are continually liberated as we walk with Him.


Healing is for ALL people and ALL are in recovery from something.


Each of us is sanctified by (Emet) the Truth of His Word (John 17:17). Nouthetic counsel (discovering and adhering to His truth) brings healing.  All of us are called to address and consider two areas in our lives in order to experience the healing Yeshua, The Anointed, has for us.


The story of the Samaritan woman at the well (John 4) reveals His truth in a way that touches us all. He invites the woman at the well and each one of us today to take a deeper drink of Himself, – THE Living Water. The Living Water of Scripture gives Kingdom Counsel of manifesting healthy and whole relationships by His perfect design.

(John 4) Jesus said to her, Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. 22 You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in Spirit and Truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. 24 G-d is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in Spirit and Truth.

Spirit: Our worldly experiences in the past and present bind our spirits in known and unknown ways. His Holy Spirit unbinds us through adhering to and agreeing with His Word of Counsel as we examine our relationships with others and ‘self’.


Truth: Through the study of G-d’s Word of Instruction and our relationship with The G-d Who GIVES ABUNDANT LIFE, we are continually set free.


Yeshua asks us with each new day, “Do you want to be made WHOLE?’ Through Training the Soul we walk together as you explore your answer and response to that question and discover His vision for your life.


Are you ready to be “made whole?”  Come join me as we discuss your goals, hopes, and dreams for BEING MADE WHOLE and healing important relationships in your life.


Our first complimentary session establishes a pathway for discovering the Holy Spirit’s hopes and dreams for your relationships. I look forward to discovering what He has planned for our work together.

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  • Recognizing The Boundary

  • Responding to The Voice

  • Returning to The Way


I am my Sister’s keeper. Recently I had a conversation with a delightful soul regarding some troubled relationships in her family life. After much reflection in the Counsel of The Word, we circled back around to the paramount counsel in The Scriptures: REVERENCE. Reverencing G-D means we reverence the other person so much that we learn to respect and protect G-D’s Boundaries for them and the relationship – which will be difficult when there have been no boundaries to begin with. However, BOUNDARY ERECTING, RESPECTING & PROTECTING is absolutely necessary for GOODNESS TO GROW within our gardens of delight of which we are responsible.

WHO does your spirit love and reverence that you must begin setting a holy boundary with? That is REVERENCING the Holy One AND the relationship that is to ‘bear much good fruit’ for generations to come!

Mussar (mostly seen in the book of Proverbs) can be translated as ‘holy head-turning’. We foolishly cross over G-D’s boundaries repeatedly because we have not learned to first RECOGNIZE THE BOUNDARY. It’s that simple and that profound. Every human needs to acquire this skill if they hope to stay IN THE WAY OF LIFE:


Mishlei 6:23

‘For the Lamp is the Commandment and TORAH is the Light, and the Way of Life is within the firm hand of Mussar.’

Divine Fire Mussar LIFE for COUPLES!

Interested in GIFTING A MUSSAR LIFE SESSION for someone you love?


1) Click HERE to DONATE.

2) Click on Certificate to print or TEXT URL (<– easiest!):

3) Once your Loved One has received the certificate, they can reach out to me by visiting – Contact Carmen and schedule a DATE/TIME.   I will then prep them via email for our first Online Mussar LIFE Session.



*References available upon request

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